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Why I hate my mom
My mother is insane. Seriously, she has like multiple personalities or something.
- I hate my mom because she always says I'm spoiled and selfish when I try to do ANYTHING for myself. I dunno, maybe she thinks I should act like I'm her slave and only ever do things for her or something?
- She always says she's disappointed in me. I can never to anything right. The harder I try to get her to be proud of anything I do, the more disappointed she gets. I try really hard not to care what she thinks, but it's hard. I just want somebody to value me as a human being, and if my own mother can't even do it... who will?
- I can't talk to her about how she makes me feel... if I say anything about how she makes me feel like shit, she'll start crying and say I'm being mean to her, and she'll run to my dad and then he'll really get pissed and yell at me for being such a "mean bastard".
- I have to pretend to do more homework than I even have, because if I don't spend "enough" time on schoolwork, my mom will bitch at me for being lazy and not being productive enough. Even if I've already DONE all my work.
- She never hugs me, but she hugs other people who come to visit her. Sometimes she even hugs near complete strangers. Although I can tell she doesn't really like them, she's obviously being fake about it. I guess even a fake hug would be nice every now and then, but I don't even get that.
- If I make some mistake, she says she'll never be able to forgive me for it. So by now I must have like 9 million unforgiven offences against her. I've lost count, but I'm sure she has a record of every single one written down somewhere, because she keeps bringing them up when I least expect it.
- If I point out that she's wrong about something, she won't admit to it. She'll get defensive, or make up some way to make herself look right, either that or she'll act like I should never dare to question her no matter what.
- If she's feeling sad or unhappy, I always feel like she blames me for it somehow. She doesn't outright say it's my fault, but she doesn't need to. Everything's always my fault.
- She keeps saying how I don't deserve all the stuff she and my dad do for me. Damn straight, I think I deserve better parents! LOL.
- She keeps saying that I can do better, but when I actually DO better, it's still never good enough for her.
- She's always comparing me to other people, but she always finds the other people to be better than me in some way.
- She likes to sign me up for things without asking me what I want, and if I tell her I don't want to do it, she doesn't care. She'll still make me go... and I'll usually go, otherwise I'll never hear the end of it.
- I hate how I sometimes catch myself doing things I don't want to do, just so that my mother won't yell at me... and I do these things even when she's nowhere nearby and will never find out! That crazy woman has gotten inside my head in a bad way.
- I also hate how she answers questions for me. Like if someone asks ME something, she'll answer for me. Like I wasn't even there. Oh and even worse, when she doesn't answer for me, I catch myself looking at her before I answer... like I'm scared of what she'll think of my answer. I can also never really answer anything truthfully with her around. She wouldn't like or understand the truth about me.
- She's always asking lots of questions, like "Why did you leave that glass there?" and "Did you put the milk back?" and "Why can't you do that later?" like... LJSDBFKJDS I don't know! I do things without thinking! Don't freaking overanalyze every tiny little thing I do!!
- She always wants to know who I'm talking to on the phone, or who that letter is from, or who I talk to on the internet, or whatever. I have no privacy.
- And she always makes me feel guilty and says stuff like "Why do you hate me so much?" ... BECAUSE YOU'RE IMPOSSIBLE TO LOVE?! But no, that would break her heart and make her go cry to my dad. I can't answer questions like that, and she knows it!
- And she takes everything personally, I can't even make jokes around her just in case she thinks I'm being mean in some way. I can't even talk around her. And I can't even be silent around her either because then she thinks I'm avoiding her (which of course I am, and with good reason). I just can't ever win.
- I remember when I was younger, she'd always threaten to hit me with her shoe whenever I did something she told me not to do. Even simple things like going into the street when there are NO cars anywhere in sight. She doesn't do that anymore, but I'll never forget it.
I could go on and on forever... but I'll stop now. Why do you guys hate your moms? Is there anything I can do about my mom (I doubt it but just in case someone has a miracle... I'm all ears)?
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Posted in: Commentary on August 27, 2009 @ 4:06 PM
Tags: Bullying, Parents, Privacy, Psychology, Youth Rights
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My mom is so annoying.!
same. bastards i hate it.
me 2 what the fuck is their problem get a life (a good one)
she blames me if she loses her clicker for the TV or loses her phone
lol ikr but my mom always blames me for no reason like WTF? and she says she "understands" me but hell no she doesnt :/
My Mum Is Kinda Like That, But We Are Alright It's Just She Has Ago For No Reason And Cry's And Goes Running To My Step Dad And Blame's Everything On Her Kid's When If It Wasn't For Me She Wouldn't Even Have A House, She Treat's My Freidn's Better Than Mee. She Blame's Me For Everthing, When My Sister Cry's " DINA WHAT HAVE YOU DONE!!!" And It Pisses Me Off SOOOOOOOO Muchh !!. But I Guess It's Better Than Having No Mum, No Matter How Much She Annoy's Mee And Hurt's My Feeling's I Guess I Still Love Her, I Have To, With Out Her I Wouldn't Bee In This World.
My mother is so annoying. She constantly bothers me.
1. I have some privacy stuff and she always needs to invade it.
2. She is constantly badgering against me to watch some stupid shit with her that I don't care about!
3. She has an annoying boyfriend who is always badgering me to watching movies with him. I don't want to waste my time with it I JUST WANNA BE LEFT ALONE!
4. She makes the worst jokes ever.
5. Whenever she farts or burps she says I did it! JUST SHUT THE **** UP AND TAKE THE BLAME YOU ANNOYING WOMAN!
And probarly a thousands more reasons. Man. I hate her so much.
My mom is like that too. I hate her :/
you guys are so much like me! holy shit! my mom and dad were both really mean too :(
dude, you shouldn't do drugs like marajuana, i hate my mom for a more valid reason
haha, here's why I hate my mother. Well, my mother doesnt let meh smoke weed. it suckis, i think smoking brings people together, i love it:D and now she wont let meh even smoke the leaves! fml! ugh!
u r stupid to smoke anyway! ur mum's only doin that coz she LOVES u. She dusent want u to die from sumink pointless like weed!! U shud b grateful.. MY MUMS DEAD!
You can't die from weed. Just saying..
dude, you know smoking can kill your lungs right? and if your lungs dont work, how the fuck do you breathe? smartass.
My bitch ass mother doesnt let meh smoke weed!!D:
look, just because you don't have parents like this doesn't mean that this post is "gay".
this is gay
shut the fuck up.
Your mom's gay, troll ass.
My evil bitch mother beats the crap out of me all the time! And she even tried to kill me as well! I hate her! I'd love to run away from her and cut ties with her forever!
your parents are weird my mom is cool she lets me stay up and watch unrated movies so i cant say i hate my mom so much you should never hate your mom im 12 and my mom can get anoying but i still love her
My mother is incredibly hypocritical. She is overweight, doesn't have a job, and is unnecessarily cruel. She complains about how we don't eat well while she devours a bag of chips. She tells us how wonderful puberty is and how we should embrace the change while she whines about menopause and her need for chocolate. My sister will ask for something and she won't get it because my mother refuses to use her own money, when it is actually our father's! I have morals and standards that she criticizes and cannot seem to respect. Though I would never admit it to someone else, she has sat on us when we misbehaved and one time she continuously pushed me until I hit a wall. The right side of my face hurt for days. It seemed my ear was on fire. She just doesn't know when to stop. Additionally, she never quits talking. She gossips with the other moms, with whom she acts fake, and she discusses how stubborn or irrational I am. If I ever talked about her to my friends... let's just say it wouldn' t be a pretty scene. She even makes fun of the way I look. She makes me feel less than, even stating that I'm not well-liked. I truly wonder why my father married her. I wish she were gone.
I know what you mean -_-
She spends like 5 hours talking to her friends at their house while I'm supposed to sit there and eat and watch Tv, while my mom enjoys herself I suffer for 5 hours of blabbering. Then she tells me not to complain! I mean what the hell? Who wouldn't complain??? When my friends come over she tells them to leave after a hour while she lets her friend stay for aleast 5 hours -_-. I'm secretly using my mom's friend laptop to type this crap up. Atm, they plan to leave at 7 pm -_- its 12 pm and I have to sleep at 10 since its a school day. How unfair I don't get any time to myself to do the things I want. T_T ITS BEEN THIS WAY FOR 10 YEARSSS ARGHHHH T_T WHY AM I STUCK WITH A HEARTLESS WOMAN DAMMIT SHE COMPLAINS WHEN MY FRIENDS COME OVER NOT HER DAMMMMMMMMMMMITT T_T
haha ik how u feel. my mom talks on the phone a lot -.-
I know what u guys r going thru! I felt the same way, but trust me one day you will come to realize what and why they are acting thjs way. Your parents love you, if they didn't they would never talk to you, not feed you, wouldntt visit you, or do anything for you. The reason they get mad at you or talk down to you is to build you up into a strong person. Also, I know it sounds ridiculous since you don't have a steady income rite now but your parents get paid so they can pay bills for you to live in a steady household. They don't get paid to give you money so you can buy candy and unnecesary clothes, get your hair dyed, etc ... I know I sound like I'm preaching and you won't fully understand but trust me some day you will!!!
you're a parent parent you?
my mom is a fucking paranoid bitch
and she wants 2 know ALL about my private stuff
my moms a bitch she works really hard but she sais she hates me and thinks that the next day im fine. She doesnt care about my feelings and she curces at me and has these crazy yells where shes yelling about death and it would be great if i were dead and i got all A's and 1 B and my mom was ashamed of me what a asshole. and like 5 minutes ago i was going on a bike ride i said i would be back bye 8:00 i was supposed to go alone. but she wanted said let me come with u and i was throwing up inside. and then when the tire went flat on her bike she blamed it on me. SHE WAS IN A PHSYCOTIC RAMPAGE SHE IS A NARSASTIC BITCH AND SHE WOULD PREFURE TO SEND ME TO A DAMB MILITARY SCHOOL OH YA SHES FORCING ME TO GO TO AN ALL GORLS MILITARY SCHOOL OH AND ITS BORDING SHE WANTS ME OUT OF HER LIFE HONESTLY I WOOULD RATHER LIVE ON THE STREETS THEN WITH HER
and oh ya im 10 years old.
That's a horrible thing to do to anyone, especially someone who's only 10 years old :(
Sounds like your mom needs to see a therapist or something... she's got some serious issues. Is there anyone trustworthy you can talk to?
anaswer this question:
Whats the worst thing your mom has done to you?
At whatever age and fell free to rant about the narsasistic bitchs in your life! PLEASE DO!
My mom is a psychotic bitch. When I was younger she had my younger sister and went into a depression where she wouldn't do anything! I had too watch and take care of my sister who was diagnosed with seizures and brain damage. Than too make it worse I was interrogated by the police and asked if my mom was a good parent, I was only 10. I should've let her go to jail. Now we live without my dad. My sister lives with my grandparents, and I have two new siblings! Of which I have to take responsibility for, while my mom yells at me, threatens me, and uses what I call "the sympathy affect" where she says I do nothing and she does everything and oh poor her! Yes she has a job and yes it can be hard but she practically works where we live, as the assistant manager of our apartments
She only has too pay a few hundred dollars and gets everything new for free! She's got major OCD, and I mean major...moving around furniture almost everyday and crying when nobody want to help her and again using the sympathy act... she also has an off nd on boyfriend whose beyond mental. He makes excuses to leave and then weasles himself back in, I could complain so much because its gotten so bad that I'm always put into the middle of it and I have major anger issues! See a problem there? I do. I'm only seventeen and he called the cops on me for "beating him up" this is abuse! :( my family sucks, o hate my mom, my brother,my moms boyfriend, pretty much my whole family!
Glad to hear i'm not the only one who has those EXACT same problems. Maybe we can somehow find some sort of solution, i could try to come up with together with her, but i'm pretty sure that if i said anything to her about this, she'd just feel insulted and cry or something. My mother is just such a fucking emotional, dramatic, annoying, control freakish, superficial, bipolar, selfish, lazy, contradicting B*T**.
Exactly! Ugh!!!
You totally described my mother perfectly right there "fucking emotional, dramatic, annoying, control freakish, superficial, bipolar, selfish, lazy, contradicting B*T**"
This is a test.
How do I delete a post on this blog? Looks like one does not need to have an account to submit a reply. And there is no delete button as per the instructions on the Intro Page.
You need to smoke more.
Some of the people here are complaining about how their mom won't let them smoke weed. So what? Only people with cancer get to smoke weed. They need it to eat and live without being in constant pain. You guys are just being downright greedy. I don't care how "good it makes you feel", you don't get to use it. Stop being such a bunch of cry-babies.
I hate my mom because she insults me and expects me to be more social. how am i supposed to be social with a low self esteem. its not like she gave me the best looks. shes a control freak and yells at me all the time.she doesnt understand jokes. OH and today she yelled at me for not wanting to stay late at summer camp and was like GET YOUR ASS OUT OF MY CAR! i didnt move and dared her to do something about it. i could have killed her but i didnt but im afraid next time she wont be as lucky. shes hit me with her heels shes jack ugly even though i call her beautiful everyday she pays more attention to my sister and makes me seem like a failure at life when talking to her friends (if she has any left) I HATE THAT BITCH
oh wow i didnt mean any of this... i still love her
I love my mommy ^_^ I sometimes find her annoying but i'm fine with that :P
my mom is the same. we have emotionally abusive mothers.
Dude. I swear we have the same mother. Every freaking thing you listed is exactly like my mom. It fucking sucks.
i hate when you see a trailer for a movie and their eyes are glued to the iphone i say i wanna see that movie and there like uh huh if im speaking chinese and your when your at a place (friends house,cousins,or webchat ect.)they trie to be cool and all up in your buiseness. LEAVE US ALONE
Seriously, my mother had met nearly all the criteria listed above. She always says she was the top student in her class and asks me why I cannot do the same. This IS my limit and no more. If there were no school NONE of these would have happened. She ALWAYS says that if you get bad marks in school, you will be a loser in the future. But once I start my own company and grow it into a multinational company, and my mother is proud of me despite that I had just came out of middle school. Then, I will smile and say,"You said people who drop out or did not get good marks in schools are losers, now I am a winner." I wouldn't know what her expression would be like. Bill Gates dropped out of high school to start his business and now he is the most richest person in the whole world! My mother said he was just an exception and no one else will be the next him. What happens if I become the next him? And she said that without a diploma or anything, you will not be able to get anywhere. NO! And anyway, some diploma like that only means that you had survived 12 years of mental torture. You are most likely NOT to succeed since school has badly damaged your mental thinking. Some people who came out of PhD simply became nerds down the street. Do you want your children to be like that??? That is why I hate school so much. If I were the mother, I would argue with the Ministry of Education that what you are doing is sending more and more innocent people into lunatic asylums, and another portion of them cannot be cured. So sad our students are :educated" this way......
First of all, after reading your reasons why your mom is such a horrible person, I laughed. I envisioned a little 9 year old child whining about the horrors of parental love. Suck it up.My mother also fits the majority of the criteria above. When I was young and ignorant I would whine and moan about her invading my privacy and criticizing my every move. Now that I think about it, the only reason why she was so demanding and "annoying" was because she cared for me. My mother got beat up by some asshole when she was younger. She just wants to protect me from harm (even though im a 6 ft tall athletic male LOL). So, the bottom line is, mothers torture you cause they love you <3
I'm a girl who's wearing a cover on everything, my personality, my look and even how I speak. </3
Life isn't fair. Some girls they r just show offs and everything, and I am just a sweet, kind, friendly, helpful, cheerful I always smile and I love meeting new people.
But at school because I am not one of these girls who know everyone, but if I were like that i'd be really cool and awesome. I am still looking for a TRUE bestfriend because I still didn't find one since ever I am in grade 4, probably. ugh you can't trust anyone :'( I love my mom, b'cause she's the only one I could trust <3x
with love, sophie xx:)
My mother isn't as bad as all of yours, but I still hate her. She's never hurt me physically, but she drove me into depression and self-harm.
When I was younger, she never looked at me, or spent time with me, and when my sister (my perfect, older sister, who was planned, while I was an accident) hit me and cut me (yes, she's a sociopath) my mother punished me, saying that I must have done something to provoke her. I'm older now, and instead of crying to deal with things I self-harm. My friends found out and went to the school counsellor, who in turn told my parents. My mother was not supportive, or sad. The first thing she did when I got home was call me an 'attention seeking whore who can't do anything right without fucking up'. That was the first time I had heard my mother swear.
I hate my mother. I hate my sister. I hate school. Urgh.
My mom is worse than yours.
everything and more.
Mom makes me stay in here boring lonely hot classroom after school until she comes back so I can do my homework so I sneak outside and do get some fresh air but she either wants me to stay with her and her annoying second graders or stay in the room. She got mad at me when she found out I do that all the time so I told here she had no respect for me and that I hate her but she said I'm the disrespetful one. Fucking bitch. |:'(
How does that make sense? How can you be mad at someone for "their own good"?
Read this true conversation:
Last year my BFFs came to my house for a sleepover. It was so much fun. By the end of the event, she said:
BFF: Wow your mom is so kind!
Me: Yeah, cause you're a guest anyway.
BFF: ?
Me: I dont like the way my mom treats guests differently. I'm treated like a slave while people like you are treated like kings.
BFF: I get it. My mom does it too.
Me: Yeah, I wonder why they do that.
SEE?! My mom totally sucks that way. She's two-faced or something. She just want to be super nice, kind in social status but the mean queen in family feuds. Read another convo:
Mom: I was mad at you because it's for your own good.
Me, in my heart: SO WHAT?! It doesnt mean anything to me, you've hurt me. Tell your stuff in a more nicer way. I dont care if that's for my own sake or anything. It doesnt mean anything if I'm not happy.
Maybe your parents are simply idiots. They aren't genetically capable to understand you; expecting rational thinking from them would be like I'd expect you to fly - of course, you couldn't, because humans don't fly (unless they eat shitloads of beans or something). So yeah, most parents are idiots, according to their children. They want you to do what they think it'd be good for you, they want to protect you from shit, hell, they want you good, man. But they have no clue that their idea of good is somewhat different than yours, that's why you think they suck.
so sorry for posting this in you PIT OF ENDLESS WOE AND DESPAIR,but i do have something to say, so, i actually LOVE my mom! like, a lot! she never blames me for anything unless it IS my fault, and she is awesome to talk to and i generally love her. i feel sorry for you and everyone else who's parents are shitty.
I know how you feel. It's like kids have no rights, to ANYTHING.
Think about the following scenario. My parents are really religious and I'm not. They have a ceremony they had to go to and expected me to come along. I'm not religious, I refuse. Politely, mind you. And they make me come anyway and ground me for a month. Now if I were an adult, they'd tell me fine, okay I have religious rights and appearently since I'm an adult I don't have to do what they say. But what the frick? As a kid, I don't even have the basic rights granted by the bill of rights?
Makes me pissed because my civics teacher agreed. My mom
1) Invades my privacy
2) Always compares me to my friends.
3) Gets upset every time I get a bad grade and instead of helping me she tells me I don't try hard enough, even when I do.
I could go on and on. And don't be asses, people. Being young doesn't make you ignorant, so what? Kids bitching and moaning about their parents are considered ungrateful? But parents who complain about their kids is justified because they automatically have a brat on their hands?
Suck it up, adults. the world's not about you. Kids shouldn't be expected to obey your every command, like a dog. In fact, dogs shouldn't even be treated like that. :/
I actually like school, I can meet and talk to my friends, being my own lunch (Not the crap they make there) my teachers are nice, and without it I'd basically be sitting around all day on my computer or TV. But it's justified to think that we should be able to leave if we want. And what happened to child labor laws? If we're doing homework, we should be paid for it. And kids are never listened to just because they're young. As a fellow kid, I say don't stand for that shit, tell your mom AND dad exactly what you think of them/
If I were you, I'd be sick of living my life through pretending. I'd get mad, lash out. If your mom thinks you're mean, tell her that you think she hates you and needs to grow up. Then get up and walk away/
I agree with notalrealname
i fu*king hate my mom too dude she always says "GET THE F*CK OFF THE XBOX OR DO YOUR F*CKING HOMEWORK"
STFU B*TCH D*MN i threw my xbox controller at her she pissed me off so much here is how it went down
MOM: get your bag for your grandpa's house we need to leave now
ME: i did its ready and im ready
MOM: no your not your xbox isn't in your bag GET F*CKING READY!!!
ME: I am ready im not taking my xbox
MOM: you told me you were (was not true)
ME: no i didn't
MOM:I am fu*king tired of xbox live
ME: im not playing xbox live
MOM:yes you are you even have pants on the floor I AM SO FU*KING TIRED OF THE THING!!
ME: I'm F*CKING TIRED OR YOU YELLING AT ME *throws controller
MOM: *runs over to me and chokes me
ME: get the fu*k off me
*dad walks in and punches me, i get knocked out and wake up in a hospital.
THATS HOW IT WENT
Jeez Louise, really??? Lucky my mom isn't like that, I'm not a bragger
geez u serious!? she choke you!? normally mothers would just slap not choke -_-
u are all stupid if it wasent for ur mother u would not live and for those of u who smoke ur wasting money to die and i know that and im 11
Your mom has obviously never hit you or called you a bitch when you were trying to talk to her about being bullied RIGHT OUTSIDE THE HOUSE!!!
Unknown, we are not stupid. Your parents can't do whatever they want to you. They have to respect you and treat you like a human. Kody obviously has some problem and needs to get the eff away from his parents before they kill him
I FUCKING HATE MY MOM. She's such a bitch! Nuff said.
You should love your mother and tell her you love her everyday because tomorrow she might not be there I thought my mom was a bad mother and I didn't love her enough now shes dead I don't care what type of mother you have you should always forgive her
yo, i thought i was the only one, dont get me wrong i LOVE my mother to death but certain aspects of her need to go.
MOM:you got a D in that class your failing
ME:no im not what the heck d is passing first of all and i passed the first three quarters with an c and a b-cut off-
MOM:shut up you dont give a damn about school, all you care about is the game
ME:"pissed" MOM IF I DID NOT CARE ABOUT SCHOOL I WOULD JUST FREAKING QUIT RIGHT NOW!!!
BIG BROTHER:school is good for you read more and stop giving bullshit excuses.
ME:if i dont give a excuse you two are gonna assume some bull crap you two just dont know what goes on...
i swear all the shit i said goes through one ear out the other and my brther know how i feel, she dont listen to me but she ready to assume shit and he just joins in with her...
I guess if your mother is very petty, blameful and ignorant you could
1. Try to outsmart them with truth or try to confuse them
2. Kill them with kindness and act like it's all your fault.
3. Try to disagree on as many topics as possible so that your mother will tire of arguing or may see how pathetic she is
I understand how most of you feel, I feel like i live in a conservative country in the 19th century. If any of you have seen american news stations , my mother imbodies their dogma and unreasonable fear. As an example, once my mom was driving me home, we passed a old friend (our friendship ended by us hating each other) and my mother said somewhat jokingly that i should hit him with our car door. I told her that i probably should have and she instanly became serious and condemed me for ever thinking up such a thing! I can't wait until I'm 18!
My mom has done almost everything on this blog. She yells at me and stuff. She even just got mad when I woke up she was like you don't read enough and your lazy because all you do is play video games. And she went on on for like an hour. And when mom has a guest over she will be all happy and hug them and stuff. She also hates me to be around my dad and his family. But she wants me to be with her family all the time. She is so judgemental. Trust me your not alone.
OK, some of these posts have real problems and some just show that the writer does not really know what it is to have a hard time. But, do you know what, whatever relationship you have with your parents, at some point you just have to accept that you have personal choice. You cannot blame them for everything that goes wrong in your life. Yes, it is difficult being in that pressurised situation, but you must plan to escape it. Study hard, get out to college, make your own way. Get a job, get your own place.
You have choices, you have options. Maybe not right now, but if you don't start planning now, then your choices will be more restricted later. At some point you have to take the emotions put them in a s stone and throw them in the river. Then see what you can really do about a situation.
I'm a bit older, I'm on my third mom and and second dad. First parents abandoned me, adoptive parents, mother physically and psychologically abusive and father basically absent (a musician) and broke (a musician) and drunk (a musician!), and now I have a lovely step mother and dad is old and has a good relationship with my daughter.
You will get through this. You must remember that it is your life to live, so make the most of it. There will come a time when you can look into the hole inside and think 'ok that is deep and dark', but won't feel like you are going to fall in any more. Good luck.
her voice is so agravating! and she never shuts up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
its not just my mom, its my whole family...if i have a different way of thinking or a different opinion then my whole family treats me like i am a freaking demon child and says shit like 'idk what i am gonna do with her, she is out of control' or 'she need smacked in the mouth for acting like that.' and one thing that pisses me off is that my sister moved out and since then my mom is always talking mad shit about her to me which makes me really mad because me and my sister are really close and when i call my mom out and say that she needs to stop talking shit about her own daughter to her other daughter she says 'im not talking shit! im just saying these things because im worried about her' but that doesn't make sense because if she was really worried she wouldnt say things like "she is just a slut and i bet she is doing drugs' and she goes on to say that basically my sister is a druggie whore that sucks every dick in town...and also if i do anything wrong she freaks out like i killed someone, and even the past couple of months i have been trying to be a good kid but no one seems to notice or care, they just hang on to all the bad shit Ive done in the past...not to mention i have absolutely NO privacy, i have no phone, no iPod no laptop, nothing and i cant even keep a damn diary because my mom will tear my room apart to find it and then read it and then she would prolly yell at me for saying things about her that she doesn't approve of, in fact i know that's what she'd do...im not aloud to talk to boys AT ALL and im 16, my parents even pulled me out of school when i was in 7th grade and they wont let me go back, im not aloud to go to my only friends house, she isn't even aloud over to my house unless we stay outside on the porch and i am COMPLETELY isolated from the world. no one in my house knocks when they come in my room and if i stay in my room for more than a few hours, my mom comes upstairs and freaks out on me about how there is something wrong with me and asks me if im on drugs and makes me come down stairs even though i hate everyone that lives in this fucking house!!! i have no privacy, my family has no boundaries, i am 100% isolated from the world, and my mom hangs onto everything bad i do, even though im trying to be good but she just wont let anything go..my parents think i will run away so they nailed my windows shut literally!!! how fucking ridiculous is that!!!!!! no one in this house respects me, no one treats me like a human..they all think i should be this perfect child and if i fuck one thing up then i am the worst kid in the world!! and once in a blue moon me and my mom will get along and she will ask me questions and tells me to be honest so i will answer her questions or i will tell her secrets or something and she holds what i say against me forever and she will get pissed at me if i say something offensive and if i tell her that i want to move out, she starts crying and says that she doesn't understand why i hate it here so much! like WTF WOMEN?? how could i NOT hate it here??? its terrible here!!! there is literally nothing good about living here, i wish i could just go live on my own..i tried to get a job but of course my mom wont let me.....i cannot wait until i turn 18 and can finally get out of this hell hole!!! only 2 more years...
This was an irresistible click, since at age 42 I have finally come to terms with the fact that I hate my mother also. Dear readers, if there's anything I can say that is even remotely useful, it might be that your present experience of life is much more immediate than it will be when you get a bit older. Take a breath. For your future happiness, concentrate on skills rather than "knowledge." "Knowledge" doesn't pay the rent. Not saying this to lull you into complacent servitude; on the contrary, to encourage you to develop the capability for independence and entrepreneurship on your own terms. Someone else's cliche: If I had known I'd live this long, I would have taken better care of myself. Same goes for career as for physical health. Good luck to all of you, and try not to shoot anybody. Meta: your site is first in the list searching for "fuck school." Why am I, at my age, searching for "fuck school?" That can be the subject of your next 500 word essay.
NB: If your studies are suffering because of perceived sexual frustration, find the third hottest person you know and, without ceremony, commence fornication immediately. Chances are good she/he will feel the same. Use protection.
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WTF is wrong with you lalala? How is penis related to this conversation?
SHE... ALWAYS... ACTS... LIKE, HE'S LITTLE MISS PERFECT WHO NEVER MAKES ANY FUCKING MISTAKE IN HER GODDAMN LIFE!!! My science teacher would make a better mom! and my science teacher's a dude!
i swear it's a miracle that i i haven't commuted Matricide yet...
don't say u hate ur parents..I agree,there r extreme cases and they can really fuck u up,but they're just human...most of u just say u hate them coz they're annoying...well ur probably annoying to them and don't get me wrong,I hate school and parent r annoying to me too,but how can u say u hate them...ur MOM carried u around for 9 months and pushed u out of her fucking vagina,have some respect.
Well maybe I´m lucky for my mom after all, she is not evil but weird.
Her way of acting is rather low social skills and "fixideas" then act of evil.
A few examples 1. She refuse to listen to reason, makes me furious
2. Had a grouse old teacher once who "really liked me" and my mom was like
"You must be with him! You mean so much to him! This relation with teacher is so beautiful!"
Like wtf!! And when he started to wrote some things that disturbed me like "I had a great fever,
pain in my back turned around and I was thinking about you" I sent it to my mom with ask "Is this
normal?". Then she got mad at me! WTF! Not evil but wtf.... Lucky as age of 19 I don´t have to
pull up with such shit anymore, she is just annoying.
I'm really sorry to hear that. If you ask me, mothers should not be that way. I admit I clicked through the link half-expecting to find the story of some poor, misunderstood, underappreciated mother who fails to communicate with her child, but what I found was not that at all.
The comments to the effect of 'your parents are doing this for your own good, don't hate them, etc.' are clearly meant in good faith, but quite off the mark. I can't help imagining that these posters must not have read the article. Just to name a few examples: it is not selfish to do one or two things for yourself, especially if you also do things for other people. Saying you are disappointed in someone and they 'can't do anything right' is rarely justified, if ever, imho and is a recipe for making them fail, which is not something you want to be doing as a parent. Not being able to talk to her is also not really any good - as my mom says, moms should be there for children and be able to talk to them and address their feelings seriously, and not let their own feelings intervene more than they logically should.
I wish I had some suggestions for you but I don't. My mother is pretty much the opposite of what you have described - not to brag or anything - and I can't honestly say I know what it's like. I wish you the best of luck and hope either there comes a time when you don't have to deal with her or that she somehow realises what she's doing wrong and stops it.
My freedom with my mother: 0%
My irritation at my mother: OVER FUCKING 9000%!!!!!
she... could be a little nicer and more considerate in her wording now that i've mellowed out...
Wow.. you're such a pessimistic douche. Your mom gave birth to you so suck it up and start appreciating her! You complain about every fucking thing and will get nowhere in life that way...
that is a backwards way of thinking if EVER i saw one! its your parents DUTY AS HUMANS to procreate and raise their child with love and care! HUMANS DONT FALL OUT OF VAGINAS TO BE SLAVES! the pain of birth should be natures way of showing your mother that all life is its own beautiful thing and NO ONES TO BOSS AROUND, THREATEN, OR ABUSE IN ANY FORM! FUCK THAT !
Just try to ignore that bitch and if that isn't an option then I recomend that you get a job. Some people are workoholics(me included) just to get away from their families. I hate my mom too which is why I try to ignore her. I also recommend that you check out http://www.mgtow.com
I am a member of MGTOW(men going their own way). It has done nothing but improve my life. Posting topics and leaving comments on the forums is almost like having a support group.
Would be nice if she actually considered my opinion...
or my feelings...
or how she words things...
or how I feel...
or how I think she needs a therapist...
or how she whines...
or how she could get on my nerves...
or how she comes off...
or her temper...
The worst part is, is that I can't even hate her, or she'll start complaining and guilt-trip me!
and hen she acts like a three-year old when I give in... well, that and the fact that she is my biological mother, unfortunately. But back to the first part!
first, she'll be all: waah! Wah! you're being mean to me!!!
then when I give in she then goes: (Rather calm and toddler-like) Okay...
she finishes off with a stupid smile that she gets whenever she gets her way.
I wonder if it has something to do with being the youngest amongst her five other siblings... or not being finished being an overbearing mother...
or if she has serious psychological issues.
Whew! It's nice to vent now and then.
MY MOM IS A FUCKING CUNT!!!!!!!
Scratch that, calling my mother a cunt is too generous.
My Parents are awful manipulative trash and the worst thing is, is that when I've released all the anger I've stored I can't stay mad at them. I just end up repeating the cycle once again.
Little cunt. All she keeps doing is giving me shit to do, and calls me out on my attitude... AND I WOULDN'T HAVE TO GIVE HER AN ATTITUDE IF SHE WASN'T SUCH A FUCKING CUNT!!!!
All she ever does is whine. I swear, when she dies, I'm gonna dance on her grave.
I don't hate my mom,I love her, don't get me wrong.The thing is, SHE IS JUST SOOOO ANNOYING! I have two other siblings and I'm the oldest. You can definitely tell she has favorites, she has made that very clear to me. She treats me like I'm a disease or some shit and I will "contaminate" my siblings or something. Anyways, This quarter I got 4 A's and 3 B's, which is decent for an eighth grader. She gets mad at me saying how a B is considered failing and that I can do better. She expects so much from, the other day she told me to clean the whole down stairs because "I was being disrespectful." How I am I being disrespectful when I'm standing up for myself when you abuse me verbally and physically all the time? she takes my phone over the dumbest shit ever. One time it was because I didn't do my chores (which is understandable), but my sister didn't either and same with my brother. But of course, my sister gets her phone and my brother gets his X-box. I can't tell her anything. She will just tell my dad or her friends and they will come up to me saying, "Why don't you treat your mother better." Hmm, I don't know, maybe because she doesn't love me. Maybe because she threatens to kick me out. Maybe because she finds a problem with EVERYTHING I do. Maybe because she gave away my dog (That was a gift given to me, so she didn't own it) without telling me, I had to FIND OUT MYSELF! Like the hell do you expect from me. And what makes all of this worst is that I'm Christian so it's a sin to not listen to your parents. BUT HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO RESPECT PPL WHO DON'T EVEN RESPECT ME!She doesn't like how I have gay friends, (or any of my friends) she would never approve of my crush because she would find flaws with everything he does. She doesn't like how I like Rap. I just can't deal with it anymore. I want to move out, but how is a 13 year old supposed to survive all alone in this world today. I used to have a lot of confidence, but she always criticizes me on how I'm not good enough, always shutting me up. I've become very depressed and I have had some suicidal thoughts. I just don't know what to do.
that sounds really bad and I was in a situation like this a few months ago with my mother. it turns out my dad cheated on her and she took out all that anger on me. but she was also pregnant and I never listened to her so it was explainable. but even after I started doing all my chores and actually working,she was still mad. I confronted her and even though she yelled at me first she later broke down and told me about my dad and all the other issues like pregnancy difficulties. I think you should just confront your mom openly about how she is critiscizing you and that you are being treated unfairly. and keep pushing on even if she is mad. and remember...I think you are an amazing human being for still being able to love your mother!!!