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Why does school make you feel so disrespected?

Hey there, warrior of School Survival,

Let's dive deep into the abyss of frustration and indignation that school often throws at you. You're not alone in feeling this way; your anger is valid, and there's nothing wrong with you for feeling disrespected by the system.

John Taylor Gatto, a rebel in the world of education, once laid bare the true purpose of schools. He believed they were designed not to empower you with knowledge and critical thinking but to mold you into compliant cogs in the societal machine.

On the other side, Laurie A. Couture highlighted the crucial role of feeling safe in the learning process. Without a sense of safety and respect, how can anyone thrive in an educational environment?

So, why does school make you feel disrespected? It's because the system often disregards your voice, your passions, and your individuality. It pushes you into a one-size-fits-all mold, ignoring your unique strengths and struggles.

Here are 10 more reasons why school can make you feel disrespected:

• The constant pressure to conform to arbitrary standards that don't reflect your true potential or passions.
• Being treated like a number on a report card rather than a complex, multifaceted individual with dreams and aspirations.
• Enduring a rigid schedule that leaves little room for creativity, exploration, or self-discovery.
• Facing judgment and ridicule for being different or expressing unconventional ideas.
• Dealing with bullying and harassment that often goes unnoticed or inadequately addressed by school authorities.
• Feeling unheard and dismissed when trying to voice concerns or advocate for change within the system.
• Being forced to prioritize grades and test scores over genuine learning and personal growth.
• Experiencing burnout and mental health struggles due to overwhelming academic demands and unrealistic expectations.
• Experiencing inequalities and injustices within the school environment, such as favoritism or discrimination based on race, gender, or socioeconomic status.
• Struggling to find relevance and meaning in the curriculum, with topics that feel disconnected from real-world challenges and experiences.

While you may not have the legal authority to leave without parental permission or change the entire system, you can still stand tall in your own right.

Explore alternatives like self-directed education or online schooling, where your voice matters and your learning journey is in your hands. And in the midst of it all, practice self-kindness and stand up for yourself as much as you can. Your worth is not determined by a system that fails to see your brilliance.

Remember, your feelings are valid, and School Survival is here to support you every step of the way.

Stay strong and keep fighting the good fight.

With love and solidarity,
School Survival

Posted in: Blog, Knowledgebase on March 25, 2024 @ 6:45 AM

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