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School Is Not As Enjoyable as It Should Be

Hey there, fellow school struggler. If you're reading this, chances are you've had more than a few rough days in the classroom. Let me start by saying this: your feelings are absolutely valid. You're not alone in feeling this way, and there's nothing wrong with you. The system just doesn't fit us, and that's okay.

Peter Gray, a psychologist and researcher, has shed some light on why traditional schooling can feel like such a drag. He talks about the importance of play in learning. Remember those times when you were completely engrossed in a game, a hobby, or just exploring something you were passionate about? That's where real learning happens. Unfortunately, schools often strip away this element of play, leaving us feeling bored and disengaged.

Learning is supposed to be fun! But in school, it feels like a chore, something we have to endure rather than enjoy. John Taylor Gatto, an educator and author, had some eye-opening insights about the true purpose of schools. Hint: it's not about fostering a love for learning or helping us discover our passions. It's about conditioning us to fit into society's mold, to become obedient workers rather than independent thinkers.

Laurie A. Couture, a parenting coach and author, has some powerful words about what parents should be doing to support their kids through this struggle. Instead of pushing us to conform to societal expectations, she advocates for nurturing our individuality, our passions, and our curiosity. Imagine how different things could be if more parents followed her advice.

But hey, here's the good news: there are alternatives out there. Self-directed education, online schooling, homeschooling - these are just a few options for those of us who don't thrive in the traditional school environment. It might take some courage to step off the beaten path, but trust me, it's worth it.

So if you're feeling stuck in a system that just doesn't get you, remember this: you're not alone, and there are other paths to explore. Keep seeking, keep learning, and above all, keep believing in yourself. You've got this.

Posted in: Blog on February 8, 2024 @ 12:12 AM

Tags: fun, Learning, mental health, School

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